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Question
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Percent
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Choice
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1 - You find out she has been consuming alcohol and driving with your children in the car.
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99%
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Not OK with this
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2 - Question suggested by a visitor.
You learn your child's mother has been consuming excessive quantities of alcohol in the presence of your child at their home to such an extent that she has been prone to drunken rages that include mental and emotional abuse of your child, and then threatens your child with severe consequences if he or she reports these behaviors to you or another party.
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100%
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Not OK with this
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3 - You learn she called 911 because there was a medical emergency, your child was rushed to the emergency room in an ambulance but she never mentions it to you.
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97%
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Not OK with this
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4 - She had genuine concerns about a health issue, and rightly took your child to a doctor who diagnoses a serious condition and begins treatment, but she doesn't tell you about it on more than one occasion.
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95%
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Not OK with this
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5 - She continually uses your child to communicate with you about serious issues that require adult communication (minor visitation changes, doctor appointments, etc.), rather than communicate with you directly.
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87%
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Not OK with this
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|
6 - It comes to your attention that she encourages your child to call her short-term live-in boyfriend "Dad," YET insists the child refer to you by your first name while at the mother's home. She "justifies" this distinction to your young child by saying to him/her, "You have two dads."
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93%
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Not OK with this
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7 - What if she habitually criticizes you; or constantly calls you all sorts of bad words; or speaks negatively of you in an untruthful manner; in other words, an unending bad-mouthing of you, in ways your child can hear and understand.
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99%
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Not OK with this
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8 - Imagine that she told your child, "Your father used to beat you," when it is not true.
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100%
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Not OK with this
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9 - She tells your child other blatant lies about you.
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98%
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Not OK with this
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10 - She purposely expresses fraudulent information about you on court documents and/or commits perjury during testimony about you during courtroom hearings on custody or support issues.
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99%
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Not OK with this
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11 - Her new live-in boyfriend is an alcoholic, or addict. She doesn't appear to be concerned about the negative influence daily contact with this person has on your child.
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98%
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Not OK with this
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12 - You mail little cards and letters to your child; she intercepts them and throws them in the trash instead of giving them to your child.
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99%
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Not OK with this
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13 - Imagine running about 15 minutes late when going to pick up your children only to find she has hidden them from you - then discover this is based upon her warped understanding of the parenting plan as follows - visitation is forfeited if you are late, if you are not there exactly on time, you lose the visit.
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83%
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Not OK with this
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14 - Would you be ok with her blatantly disobeying the parenting plan?
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91%
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Not OK with this
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15 - Imagine this; she forbids your child from talking to you about anything that happens over at her house, and then requires that your child tell her everything that happens at your house.
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94%
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Not OK with this
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16 - She calls the police and claims you are not obeying the parenting plan and wants to press charges; when in truth you are in compliance and she knows it; she has called the police because she is mad at you because you are not meeting an unreasonable demand of hers - one that differs from what the parenting plan says.
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99%
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Not OK with this
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17 - A woman allows her 14 year-old daughter's boyfriend to actually move into their home; he is an 18 year-old man.
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100%
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Not OK with this
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18 - Question suggested by a visitor. Do you think a parent is a deadbeat if they pay their child support on time, every time, but refuse to take calls from the custodial parent and make no attempt to visit with or speak with the child?
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75%
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Yes
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19 - Question suggested by a visitor. Do you think the courts should implement firm punishments upon those who knowingly: perjure themselves during divorce proceedings; or those who abuse the process; or those who take off with the children in direct violation of a court order?
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88%
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Yes I do
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| Responses submitted by Men |
34% |
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| Responses submitted by Women |
66% |
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21 - Precise statistical information is not quite available yet. However, I can say that most of the replies have been from women who selected the age group of 31 to 40.
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22 - The parenting plan exists to protect the rights of: both the mother and the father. |
75% |
Chose Both |
