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Why did I choose such an alarming image to symbolize the deadbeat mom? This image is a representation of demonic forces, which uses women who are probably unaware of the malignant evil they have aligned themselves with, working to destroy something wonderful and good created by God. What can be better, purer, or more joyful than a healthy loving relationship between a parent and a child? What stronger love do human beings have than their love for their children? Who desires to destroy the good God has done? Satan, the Prince of Darkness, the Devil, the Wicked Deceiver, “who stalks about seeking whom he may devour,” that’s who.
When we examine all the evidence detailed in various studies about how vital it is to have a child’s father involved in a child’s life, how that involvement is crucial to their healthy mental development, I am persuaded that the devil is the ultimate source of this evil, corrosive compulsion a woman exhibits when she actually goes to extraordinary lengths to remove a loving, caring father from a child’s life. This evil is made all the worse particularly when her actions are based solely upon her own inability to let go of the anger or resentment she harbors toward her former husband or boyfriend, left over from their failed relationship. Both, vengeful actions and reactions to situations involving their former husbands, and, worst of all, vicious efforts to poison father/child relationships with hateful speech and lies by misleading and deceiving their children are, in my view, diabolical.
There is nothing spiritually healthy in anyone who actively seeks destruction or harm to others.
Satan is responsible for creating this hideous craving; my imagery is an attempt to portray this.
"These mothers care more about control, revenge, hatred, and 'getting even' than they care about the welfare of their children."
I am not the only one who believes the actions of an angry woman can bring so many problems into a relationship and so much pain into the lives others. In the immortal words of an ancient manuscript, written over 2500 years ago by one of the wisest men who ever lived:
- "A foolish son is the ruin of his father, and the contentions a wife are a continual dripping."
- "An excellent wife is the crown of her husband, but she who causes shame is like a rottenness in his bones."
- "It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, than in a house shared with a contentious woman."
- "Better to dwell in the wilderness than with a contentious and angry woman."
Contained in the Proverbs of Solomon, the son of David, King of Israel.
Proverbs 19 v. 13, 12 v. 4, 25 v.24, and 21 v. 19 respectively.
Apparently one of history's wisest men has come to the conclusion that the negativity of a woman can be so strong it may be likened to the irritability of uncontained water as it constantly drips or spills in your home. He also decided that the effects of a shameful woman are so powerful upon her husband it can be likened to his bones actually rotting inside his body. He went on to say it is actually preferable to live out in the wilderness, or sleep on the roof of your home, than it is to being inside and have to hear her ranting. Being out in the elements, suffering the cold damp rain, dealing with the wind, suffering the scorching heat of the sun, living among animals and bugs - these conditions would be preferable to the negativities exuded by the angry female inside your own home. Wow!
I submit to you that a Deadbeat mom is such a woman.
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